“Little girls are the nicest things that happen to people. They are born with a little bit of angel shine about them, and though it wears thin sometimes, there is always enough left to lasso your heart.” — Alan Beck
Welcome to Sugar and Spice, an ethical society of free-spirited individuals, united by our love for those quintessential ingredients that combine to characterise girlhood. Our name, of course, derives from the timeless saying, “Sugar and spice and all things nice, that's what little girls are made of.” And, indeed, we honour and celebrate the sweetness, charm and spirited essence to which those words point, and which every little girl embodies in her own unique way. Whilst potentially controversial, our position is that “girl-love,” in the literal sense of the term, is unquestionably a force for good in a world that’s increasingly consumed by hate. And certainly we, as a community, are dedicated to dispelling the various misperceptions that may prevent the phenomenon of girl-love from being viewed in a positive light.
“Thank heaven for little girls.” — Maurice Chevalier
So, what exactly is a girl-lover? Perhaps the most famous example would be that of Charles Dodgson (Lewis Carroll), whose classic works were inspired by his love of little girls, generally, and for Alice Liddell, specifically. Being a man of great talent and imagination, he was able to express his love through story telling, from which the whole world has obviously benefited. Dodgson was unique, in many ways, but his love of girls certainly wasn’t, and nor was his impeccable behaviour towards them. Indeed, we would argue that a girl-lover is defined by his or her actions, as the only true reflection of what’s in their heart.
“I love little girls.” — Quince, Meet Joe Black
Artists, of course, have attempted to capture the essence of girlhood in paint, or on film. But with such depictions there’s often a degree of ambiguity, and therefore controversy. For beauty is famously in the eye of the beholder, and so two people may have very different reactions to the same image. Moreover, as any art gallery curator will tell you, there are countless classical paintings of children that will never see the light of day. Instead, they remain stored away in gallery basements, having been deemed offensive to modern sensibilities. This is a tragic situation, in our view, and one which paints a horrid picture of Western civilisation.
"Little girls dance their way into your heart, whirling on the tips of angel wings, scattering gold dust and kisses in our paths." — Unknown
In truth, most girl-lovers simply want the freedom to express themselves, without the fear of being condemned or misconstrued. Typically, they’ll attempt to uplift, empower and nurture the potential within every girl who crosses their path. Some go into teaching in order to achieve this. Others, who may not be so academically inclined, will often enter disaster or conflict zones, with the intention of saving lives and alleviating suffering. This may sound extraordinary to those who are cynical, or who are unfamiliar with the subject, but such heroic actions typify the depth of love that little girls so effortlessly evoke in us. The fact that we feel unable to reveal our true motivations to others is one of the reasons why the reality of girl-love, such as we are defining it here, continues to go unrecognised by the masses.
"In her laughter, I found a thousand reasons to smile. In her innocence, I saw the beauty of a world untouched by sorrow." — Lila Johnson, Whispers of Childhood
About Us
Sugar and Spice is a fledgling, non-profit society, based in beautiful Cornwall, home of the legendary King Arthur. Cornwall has long been a source of inspiration for artists and storytellers alike, its rugged landscape and rich tapestry of folklore having captivated the imagination of generations. But wherever you happen to live in the world, you are very welcome to join our organisation, or contribute to the cause. Together, let us:
* Empower each other to overcome challenges and achieve our goals.
* Create a supportive and nurturing environment where everyone can thrive.
* Build an organisation that is recognised and respected the world over.
* Make girl-love acceptable again, through our open and heartfelt example.
* Give girls the opportunity to see themselves through our eyes.
Eventually, we anticipate becoming an independent hub or platform, offering context and legitimacy to content creators, who may have felt unwelcome elsewhere. If you’d like to stay up-to-date on developments, then you can subscribe to our substack. In the meantime, if you have any questions, please don’t hesitate to get in touch. I look forward to hearing from you!
Corey
Embrace what makes you different; have the courage to be disliked.
For more on our mission and how you can get involved, see our Mission Impossible article.
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Frequently Asked Questions
What’s the difference between girl-love and paedophilia?
In many ways, the aforementioned Charles Dodgson was the last significant girl-lover in history, representing an archetype — largely comprising of artists and other creative types — who “romanticised” little girls and put them on a pedestal. These were not “paedophiles,” in the way that word has come to be used today, and they certainly weren’t viewed as being a threat to children. Consequently, in the absence of any social stigma, they openly and unashamedly idolised little girls, expressing their devotion mainly through the arts. But, alas, this beautiful tradition, which historically always garnered an appreciative audience, has since been destroyed by decades of abuse scandals, to the point where girl-love is no longer even recognised as being a unique phenomenon. Anyone who exhibits such love, therefore, tends to be labelled a “witch” (certainly, the modern equivalent thereof) and persecuted accordingly. This is because most people today are unable to view the appreciation or idolisation of children through anything other than a sleazy, tabloid lens. Which is obviously a situation that Sugar and Spice aims to turn around.
So, just to be clear: The term “girl-love,” in the way that we are using it, in no way implies a sexual attraction. However, it would be foolish to think that a girl-lover mightn’t have different feelings for a 16-year-old than they would for a 6-year-old. The issue, therefore, has less to do with whether a physical attraction exists or not, and more to do with how one actually behaves. For this is what determines the difference between a genuine girl-lover and someone who only cares about their own gratification.
For a challenging, alternative perspective on this subject, you might want to check out the following article. Please note, however, that the views and opinions expressed therein are those of the author and do not necessarily reflect the position held by Sugar and Spice.
Deconstructing Paedophilia: The Truth Behind the Perception
Could you say something about your personal journey and what led you to create Sugar and Spice?
Well, I certainly have a story to tell, but it’s a long one, so I’ll save it for another time. Suffice it to say, like most girl-lovers who are open about who they are, I feel that I’ve been unfairly treated by society. This is a cultural issue, I realise, and so I don’t take it personally. But, nevertheless, the misperception that lies at the heart of the problem is one that needs to be addressed. Hence, Sugar and Spice, which should help to distinguish and differentiate one phenomenon from another; phenomena which ought never to have been lumped together in the first place.
To be honest, I’ve always been mystified as to why other people don’t generally see girls as I do. Could it be because I am viewing them through rose-coloured glasses? People have said as much. But I don’t feel that my perception of them is being distorted in any way. Rather, it’s girls who bring a rose-coloured hue to my life, through their innate beauty and beguiling ways.
Finally, having been inspired by the antics of globetrotting YouTubers, my personal goal is to travel the world, photographing girls and vlogging my experiences. I’m not just referring to street photography, but actually approaching parents in public, showing them my website, and paying them for a photoshoot, if they’re agreeable.
What type of help do you need?
If we’re going to succeed, then we’ll need everyone rowing in the same direction, contributing whatever is most appropriate for them. We’re not a company, remember, but a society, which will therefore become a reflection of its active members and their dedication to the cause. That being said, we’re obviously looking for creative individuals, including web developers, as well as financial support. But certainly one can contribute simply by letting others know that we exist.
For those who prefer not to donate cash, there is a Wishlist. Any items on it will be used on behalf of the society. Or you could upgrade our Flickr account to Pro, which would also be much appreciated.
Beautiful sentiment and beautiful girls